“I love that shirt on you,” he purred in my ear standing behind me.
“That..,” waiting just a beat to catch his eyes in the mirror with a little smile, “is because it is your shirt.”
“No,” he says, playing with the hem of the shirt and letting his fingers brush lightly against my thigh, “that is because I like the thought of my shirt all over your body.” Now he is playing with me….his eyes wandering down the neckline of the shirt to the opening.
“Funny. I like the thought of you all over my body. How about I give you your shirt back?” as I start to unbutton the shirt.
Many women ask me how they can entice a man into passionate play without much preparation. I know, for women, the leather cat suit with garters and stockings can be a super sexy when on the prowl, but sometimes, simple and spontaneous can be very sexy! When combined with the power of the male essence, the effect is supreme allowing you to use his sexuality against him.
Here are some sexy examples to consider:
- His Shirt: Either with a sexy combination of a pretty bra and panties or completely bare, I have never known a man that did not love to see a woman in his shirt. Interestingly enough, this works as well before and after sex.
- His Cologne: This is a great double whammy. You love the way he smells…it really cranks your clit into overdrive. Good. He likes his cologne or he would not wear it. Use that combination to turn sexual into sensational burst of arousal as you climb all over each other.
- His Jacket: Starting at a very young age, either through protection from the cold, marking territory, or the sweetest form of chivalry, men love to see a woman cuddled up in their jacket. So, snuggle into his jacket when he offers (and his offer is important because he is giving you something of himself) and suggest other way to stay warm together.
HINT: Sometimes, there are themes that make the response more immediate and explosive. For example, The Marine loves it when I wear his Marine Corp jacket. It’s a big heavy leather jacket with a Marine Corps emblem that swallows me. Look for his weak spots and stroke those until he can’t stand it anymore.
Have a favorite way to light up your man using his own sexuality and manliness against him? Share with us! ~~Dee
How do you do that? Easy! Leave me a comment here telling me that you want OhMiBod. Not so hard huh? (wink) Then….spread the word. If you feel generous, I would love that you let everyone know about the SexyWhispers contest by adding a few words in a post on your blog. It is not required, but it would make my Christmas wish list!
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