Sexy Interviews: Sex on Mars

So, a few days ago, as I exchanged sweet nothings with My Favorite Martian, I challenged invited him to a sexy game of Show and Tell….then, I stepped back to see if he was man enough to come into our world of the *Cathouse*.  He did not disappoint!  He shot me a list of questions like a little boy with a new toy!  You can see my interview here!

As you know, I love control.  Combining that with the thought of making him stutter gave me that powerful feeling less than safe for any man. Being his “first” blog interview (deflowering a virgin—I was gentle with him!), there was a sense of creaminess in stroking the deepest penetrations of mental masturbations from a man accustomed to giving only his name, rank, and serial number when threatened with danger. Him and I—breathless moments of whispered questions with sweaty, revealing answers of past pleasures and pains—I thought about all of the burning questions that the ladies of the *Cathouse* would love to drag out of him using every one of their feminine wiles.  (HINT:  Fuzzy pink handcuffs seem to be a focus for him! Nuf said.)

I could have easily let my blog virgin off of the hook with quiet words of comfort or sensual releases from topics that might have been considered too personal, but in truth, he rose to the occasion with the grace of a man seeking understanding within him and finding a new peace in the man he is seeking to become.  Make yourself comfortable with an adult beverage and join our little tête-à-tête while I caress the mind of NotFromMars of Male Insights.

1–What one feature about a woman instantly turns you on?
A witty, intelligent, sense of humor.  At first I was going to say a nice set of tits, but I’ll really take someone who looks for the funny in everything before some C cups.  I always have something to say about everything and it’s usually witty or funny, and I like a woman that can play along, keep up and challenge me.  It’s that brain-fucking thing, you know?  That is where the best foreplay begins for me, so if a girl’s able to play along, I’m hers.

2–Tell me about the worse first date you have ever had.
Oh boy…Well, thinking about it, it was a time that I went home on leave from the Marines. I ended up seeing a girl I went to high school with.  She wanted to catch up a bit, which was weird because we weren’t really friends; I knew her because she’d dated my best friend in high school.  But she’d grown up to be completely gorgeous so I asked her to dinner.  Well, the conversation was completely dull and lifeless which made me wish for an early night.  After dinner I took her home and she made it clear that she didn’t want me to leave just yet and being young, I was horny enough to stay.  Somehow or another we ended up having sex, which she loved and I didn’t, and then she ended up telling me that she loved me.  I’ve never pushed sex on a first date since.

3–Tell me about a time when you treated a woman badly and wished you had not (just the absolute worse time please).
Oh, straight for the throat.  Without getting too long-winded, a girl I had been dating off and on met someone who she thought was completely fantastic.  They fell pretty hard for each other but really couldn’t act on too much because he was getting out of a long relationship.  He called her everyday, treated her wonderfully, made numerous trips out to visit her, paid to have her come see him, etc. Well, in my insecurity, I wormed my way into her heart, coaxed her to choose me over him, and then eventually brutally broke her heart.  It still pains me to think of how badly I hurt this woman and probably ruined a chance for her to find happiness.

4–What is the most difficult thing you have ever done?
Looked inside myself to see how I needed to change.  I’m still looking and it’s still hard but I’ve made some progress.  It’s scary to see that you’re not the person you’ve made people think you are; that you’ve made yourself think you are.  So facing that and then beginning a journey of real self-discovery is still the most difficult thing I’m doing.  It’s hard not to revert to the made-up me.

5–How have your sexual views changed in the last 10 years?  Do you think that this evolution is natural for men?
I came to believe that sex and sexuality is 90% mental 10% physical.  This was not the case in my youth.  I thought good sex was all about technique and was all about the things you do together when naked.  I learned that good sex is all about the brain-fucking.  And it starts the minute eye contact is made for the day.  The flirting, the innuendos, the casual-yet-planned touches.  The interaction.  All of it combines together to keep the heat rising until it boils over into the physical.  Do I think the evolution is natural for men? It can be if they can look past their own dicks for a minute.

6–Why did you become a Marine?
Honestly, to escape a small town and a woman.  I’d been looking for a way to pay for college since I couldn’t afford to make it past my first semester and working a full-time job wasn’t getting me anywhere.  So, when I’d had my heart broken by a woman, that gave me the push I needed to really search for a way to get out of that stifling place.  So, the day after I made the decision to find a way out, I went and talked to the recruiter and told him what I wanted to do.  I chose the Marines because they felt they were the best and I’d heard they were the hardest and I need to constantly be challenged or I get too bored and quit.  It was the best thing I could have ever done.

7–What is the biggest sexual myth that exists about men?  Why is it not true?
I’d say that every man wants sex all the time.  It’s not true, because I don’t want it all the time.  Even if I’m the only one who’s that way, you can’t say that every man wants it all the time, now can you?

8–If you could have sex, just once, with any one woman in the world, who and why?
Only one?  How do I narrow it down?  Well, ummm…uh….I guess I’d have to say Michelle Pfeifer.  I’ve had a crush on her since I can remember.  There’s just something about her that sings to me.  I’ve seen all her movies, good and bad.  She’s probably a little uptight sexually, so it might not be all that good, but it’d be worth a shot. (OK…I am smiling here because he picked a woman of obvious class and strength!  Big points from me!)

9–What is the one thing you have always wanted to try sexually?
I’ve tried everything I’ve ever wanted to sexually.  If someone’s got something new I haven’t heard of, I’d love to consider it, but I’m ready to start back at #1 on the list and work my way through again.

10–What is the one thing you would never try sexually?  (Swinging my fuzzy pink handcuffs!)
Being penetrated anally.  I don’t think I’d ever become comfortable with myself enough to cross that line.  It’s not that I have fears of turning gay or anything, I just don’t think I’d ever be able to do it.  Not that I don’t appreciate a good rim job every now and again… Now, if you keep teasing me with those handcuffs, I’m going to make you use them.  (snort….mmm….I love confidence, but…*grin*)

11–What secretly makes you think badly of a woman?  This should be a personal quirk…like I can’t stand a man without a sense of humor.
If she thinks I owe her my attention and affection just because others give it to her.  It turns me completely the opposite way.  I’ll want nothing to do with her no matter how beautiful or sexy she is.

12–Which is more important to you: an intelligent woman or a sexy woman?  Sorry…yes is not an option.
That’s easy.  An intelligent woman, because I think intelligent is sexy.  But if you meant intelligence or looks, it’s still intelligence.  Looks are fleeting, I want someone who can challenge my mind and keep me interested.

13–Who is your sexual hero?  Why?
Honestly, I’ve never had one.  And now, thinking about it, you and your partners would probably fall into that category with Whispers Media and Sexy Whispers.  I love what you’re trying to do for the women of the world.  I think it’s needed desperately as no one should live in a state of sexual deprivation, and I’m not talking about the absence of sex. (Geez!  Am I blushing or what??)

14–What is your favorite sexual pleasure?  Why?
Giving a woman oral sex.  And it’s completely selfish.  It strokes my ego to have her cum multiple times just using my mouth.  Part of sex for me is the knowledge that I’m able to satisfy my women and this is one of the most enjoyable ways for me to do it.  It makes me feel good.  Like I said, it’s selfish, but it is what it is, and I’ve never had anyone complain.

15–Why do you write erotica?
For a few reasons, but the biggest is still to have my ego stroked.  It’s hot to have a woman read my words and get wet thinking about them, and then to tell me.  That’s just hot! It’s also a sort of release for my sexual frustration.  I’m kind of in a state of abstinence, if you don’t include masturbation, and this helps me release the frustration.  It’s definitely helps keep me from turning blue.  That’s just painful.

17–What is the most important thing you have learned since starting to blog?
That I still have a lot to learn.  About myself, about women, about sexuality.  All of it.  And I love it.  I’ve also learned that I’m still a man at heart and thrive on the attention, so I’m trying to keep that in check lest I start to fall back into my old habits.  But, I love that there are plenty of women out there who are willing to share themselves on this journey that I’m taking, and they show me that I still have a lot to learn.  I’m loving the ride.
 
Bonus:  Who is your personal hero?  Why?
My mother.  She’s the strongest person I know.  She survived an emotionally abusive, compulsive gambling, cheating, and alcoholic husband.  She had to give a child up for adoption for the survival of her other children.  She worked three jobs to give my sister and me everything she could and she never once asked what was in it for her.  To this day she’d still walk through hell and back for me and would never ask why she needed to.  I can only hope that I’m as good to my daughters.  (Admission–this gained major points with me too!)

For anyone watching the numbers and wondering if I miss numbered one of the questions, the answer is no.  I asked this wonderful man of mystery, so willing to open his soul to bare the good and bad to benefit women, a question about the “one thing that no one else knows about you.”  He was a terrific sport and I really felt like he should be able to keep some things to himself because I consider him a friend worthy of my respect.  (raising my Mojito to him) –Here’s to you Martian….thank you so much…it was fun!

Since you already have my panties, I will send you that lacy black bra to go with it! (giggling)~~Dee