If you are not sitting back firmly in your chair with a margarita in hand, then I will wait because what I am about to tell you will blow your ever loving mind. *Waiting* I am serious. Go now….adult beverage!
You see…this all started on one rather chilly Fall day when My Favorite Female Scorpio MissM asked me about my favorite ways to bringing home the big “O” (Orgasm for all the sexually challenged) through penetration. The talk spread around the *Cathouse* until My Favorite Pink Pussy CinnKitty told me that there were several woman who said that penetration did not pop the big “O” for them. I started to get suspicious. After all, these are very sexually aware women. These women could teach classes on sex, so I know they are in tune with their sexuality and what strokes their love buttons. Hummm… the past Librarian came out in me and I did a little research. Ready??
Q: Do you know what % of women can not achieve orgasm through penetration?
A: 80% of women say they can not achieve orgasm through penetration!
I had to read that statement through a few times to really understand. It was like a bad car accident!
Reality Check: That means, if the stat holds true, then out of a million women, 800,000 have to employ other methods to reach sexual satisfaction! That is more than will be diagnosed with breast cancer this year (1 in 8 women).
Now, I know. You are saying to yourself….”Dee, you can’t really be comparing breast cancer to inability to achieve orgasms. The two do not compare!” I agree. One will kill your body…the other will kill your soul. Plus, women will live a very long time, more than 62 years assuming that the average female lifespan is 79 years, without experiencing an orgasm because they don’t know or won’t accept that there is nothing wrong with masturbation, sex toys, or self love.
More than that, for most women who do not achieve orgasm through penetration, they begin to feel like something must be wrong with them. They believe that all women “get off” through penetration.
This is what I am screaming to women everywhere. It is not true. It’s a lie. 4 out of 5 women do not achieve orgasm through penetration. You are not alone if you can not get to the point of orgasm through intercourse. There are many different ways to reach for the pleasure you deserve: clit massage, g-spot, oral sex, sex toys, visualization, or erotica are some that cum (smile) to mind. These are not separate methods. Think of them more as sexual flavors. Taste them all…use as many as you want.
In the next few days, I welcome all to discuss and reaffirm the necessity of orgasmic pleasures for a woman and share the road. I open the doors of the *Cathouse* to all who want to grace our place. I will be posting information about the different techniques and methods of play to help you get past the point of penetration (pun intended). If you don’t feel like you can comment here, then just hang out and hear what others are saying.
Hear what I am saying. Four out of five women means that you are not alone. A matter of fact, this is probably every woman you know. That this epidemic is not well known means that there is a taboo nature to it. And here is where we start to change that!
Remember: The fear last a moment, but the freedom lasts a lifetime!~~Dee