Yes, yes….the Marines and I want a few good men.
As I think about it, we have about the same standards (my man is a Marine):
- The ability to think quickly and intelligently in tight situations
- An understanding of the mind and instincts of the other side
- The readiness to take action at the right time and situation
- A healthy does of looking hot in and out of his clothes (ok…not a requirement, but….as long as I am making a list!)
You see, this search results from a recent discussion with Tom. I have to note publicly that I have read Toms blog and he “appears” to be a man of consequence. I would say “evolved.” In response to his comments, I emailed him an invitation to take up residence on SexyWhispers and he said that he did not want his presence to scare off women. I assured him that strong, sexy women could handle the opinions of an intelligent man. As a matter of fact, I so believe that we can handle having strong, intelligent, sexy men around that I have offered / invited / asked to interview him for one of our Sexy Interviews. We will see.
Now…the question is “Why?” It’s easy really. I don’t believe that a woman can fully accept her sexuality without understanding men—their motivations, their strengths, their advantages. I don’t see how women can exist without the men of the world. Not to build or validate our identity, but to be our playmates. If we restrict men from our group and our existence, then we are not making ourselves stronger. We are providing another road block to our acceptance of who we are sexually. You see, men are not the reason women do not feel good in their own skin. Each woman is responsible for her erotic self. And, men can be a strong catalyst for this understanding because men, as a part of their natural acceptance of self, have already reached that goal.
With the belief that the support of sexuality means an understanding and agreement that all forms of sexuality (homo, bi, and heterosexuality) between adults are viable means of sexual fulfillment and expression, then we can no more deny the existence of our partners any more than we can deny the importance of self, sex, and erotica. Plus, could there be anything more fun than picking through the men of the world to find the best of the best? (smile-alittle help ladies!!)
Its almost as important as accepting that you NEED rechargeable batteries! Really women…lets help out the environment while we are helping ourselves!! ~~Dee
Update: It is rare that I get the honor to bring blessing to someone who has blessed me. I started the “Interview Me” game with Finn weeks ago. She was so gracious and made me feel very welcome with her. She was an instant moment of comfort. A few days ago, she stepped up to be interviewed. I consider this an incredible privilege…and look forward to the rather invasive questions I sent her. Good luck and God love you Finn!