Well, I guess there is no use hiding it anymore. I have been revealed as a fraud. Oddly, it is a new idea for me so I am still getting used it. You see, twice today I was accused of not being what I seem. I was told by well meaning people that I was over eager in posting to others blogs! Never having been one to ask for sex on the first date (although… it is not an idea I am against), I was completely blown away. I had to read the emails twice to fully understand what I was being told.
It seems….I have been the focus of a type of prejudice. (I never use the word “victim” and any reference to myself in the same sentence!) Because I have a company name behind my blog and the ability to give stuff away, I am seen as commercial. So, here are my conclusions:
- Because I have access to pretty graphics, I don’t have a brain in my pretty brunette head or thoughts that I would like to express.
- Because I have the ability to provide women with information about sex products and access to sexpert podcasts, I don’t own an opinion of my own or my sexuality.
- Because I go to other peoples blogs and write comments (like everyone else I think) and leave a link inviting people to visit me back, I don’t have any want to share with other women the empowerment of erotica and being a strong, sexually charged woman.
While it is possible that, like that new kid in middle school, I charged right into the middle of groups and started talking to people like I belonged (thank you to the many who have treated me like I did—many virtual kisses to you all…and you know who you are….look at my blog under Ladies We Love!), I was not trying to stomp around or make a mess. I was just being me. I would apologize for any issues, but I don’t hand out apologies for me being me!
What does that mean? Now, many people will be able correct me publicly if I am not telling the truth (and I promise to post all comments!), but when I get a comment…I treat each person that contacts me as a real person. I email them….chat with them…ask them about their life….tell them about mine. Before I post, I read archives and keep up with the blogs that I love. If I don’t like a blog (and there have been a few), then I pass by without comment.
Here is another news blast for the critics: I don’t get paid to run this blog. It is my passion…it is what I want…so, every email, post, and correspondence is on my time.
One more thing….I got my FIRST request for an interview today from Misty! I am so excited. Keep watching. I have been to her blog and can feel the sexual energy all over….ummm…..speaking of panties….enough said!~~Dee